You’ve probably noticed that gratitude is getting a lot of press. Books, podcasts, and social media are full of the news that gratitude will make you healthier and happier and even extend your life! Gratitude leads to more contentment, but a word of caution: If you are discontent, yet say “I’m fine,” “at least I’m not . . .” or “I guess I should be grateful. . . “ take notice.
Being resigned is not the same as being content. Resignation dressed up as contentment breeds resentment.
Resignation says It will never get better.
Gratitude says I’ll find joy while I’m here.
Resignation stops trying.
Gratitude finds a way.
Resignation says Might as well get used to it.
Gratitude says Something good can come from this.
Resignation says This is just the way it is.
Gratitude says Some days are like this. And yet . . .
Perhaps it’s time to make new choices, create new patterns, or ask for help. Contentment only comes through genuine gratitude, not resignation.